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		<title>Approaching 1.0</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2009 14:57:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Blaise Alleyne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I had a bit of a moment yesterday.
It&#8217;s just that I&#8217;m so incredibly excited and energized right now. I&#8217;m starting to move on a variety of really cool projects and endeavours.
A little over a year ago, I claimed I was about to &#8220;up the diversity&#8221; on this blog. Better late than never. Here&#8217;s me committing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a bit of a <a href="http://blaise.ca/blog/2009/12/10/love-is-desire-for-the-beautiful/">moment</a> yesterday.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s just that I&#8217;m so incredibly <a href="http://wilwheaton.typepad.com/wwdnbackup/2009/11/get-excited-and-make-things.html">excited</a> and energized right now. I&#8217;m starting to move on a variety of really cool projects and endeavours.</p>
<p>A little over a year ago, I claimed I was about to &#8220;<a href="http://blaise.ca/blog/2008/11/07/rss-feeds-im-about-to-up-the-diversity/">up the diversity</a>&#8221; on this blog. Better late than never. Here&#8217;s me committing to actually begin talking about a <a href="http://blaise.ca/blog/2008/11/20/building-a-catholic-case-for-free-culture/">Catholic case for free culture</a>. I <em>have</em> been giving it a lot of thought and making lots of notes, but I just need to get over the urge to write an essay instead of blog post so that I can start getting the ideas out.</p>
<p>The other theme I hope to explore in depth is the <em>full potential</em> of a true free culture approach to transform music. I&#8217;ve had some fascinating conversations with <a href="http://www.natesimpson.com">Nathan Simpson</a>, <a href="http://twitter.com/rverzub">Roman Verzub</a>, <a href="http://www.matt-york.com/">Matt York</a> and <a href="http://twitter.com/3rdparty">Josh Newman</a>, and I&#8217;ve been putting the pieces in place at <a href="http://blaise.ca/music">blaise.ca/music</a> to start turning some of these ideas into action. I plan to expand on this at length in future posts.</p>
<p>I feel like these two ideas will be prominent themes in much of what I do in the next few years, and beyond.</p>
<p>Then, there&#8217;s the work I&#8217;ve been doing on the <a href="http://drupal.org/project/creativecommons">Drupal Creative Commons module</a> and, more recently, the new Creative Commons Canada website (hope to have something to show soon&#8230;), among many of the <a href="http://www.freeswitch.org/">other</a> <a href="http://delalumni.org/">cool</a> <a href="https://sourceforge.net/projects/nateoffice">things</a> I get to do through <a href="http://alleyneinc.net">Alleyne Inc</a>. My <a href="http://fishkiss.ca/">band</a> is showing <a href="http://blaise.ca/blog/2009/10/30/fishkiss-alive/">signs of life</a> again, and I&#8217;ve been gigging on violin. I&#8217;ve also been part of a great team with the <a href="http://utsfl.wordpress.com/">University of Toronto Students for Life</a>, and I&#8217;ll be putting on another <a href="http://blaise.ca/blog/2009/03/06/singers-songs-and-strings/">pops concert</a> with the <a href="http://hhchamberstrings.sa.utoronto.ca/">Hart House Chamber Strings</a> in February. The day after that, I&#8217;m <a href="http://identi.ca/notice/15659144">headed to Philadelphia</a> for a week-long <a href="http://theologyofthebody.org/page.asp?ContentID=33">immersion course</a> with one of the leading scholars on the Theology of the Body.</p>
<p>Oh, and I&#8217;m getting <a href="http://haise.ca/">married</a> next summer.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m hitting the release candidate stage for version 1.0 of my life. And there are a <a href="http://blaise.ca/music/songs/anaximander">lot</a> of <a href="http://gitorious.org/patrack">things</a> I&#8217;m <a href="http://utsfl.wordpress.com/2009/12/10/web-strategy-for-campus-pro-life-clubs/">going</a> to <a href="http://identi.ca/notice/16346564">create</a>.</p>
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		<title>Love is desire for the beautiful</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 14:18:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Blaise Alleyne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This may be over the top, but it&#8217;s the kind of crazy I&#8217;m feeling right now.
This is as close to pregnant as I&#8217;ll ever get.
I am teeming with desire, overflowing with a yearning to release this energy, to create something beautiful. So overwhelmingly fertile, I strive for that moment of giving birth in beauty. Overcome [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>This may be over the top, but it&#8217;s the kind of crazy I&#8217;m feeling right now.</em></p>
<p>This is as close to pregnant as I&#8217;ll ever get.</p>
<p>I am teeming with <em>desire</em>, overflowing with a yearning to release this <em>energy</em>, to <em>create</em> something <em>beautiful</em>. So overwhelmingly <em>fertile</em>, I strive for that moment of <em>giving birth in beauty</em>. Overcome by the potential for real <em>unity</em>, I move forward with purpose and resolve, with being and intention, in search of <em>the complete</em>, of an expression of a <em>truly generative love</em>.</p>
<p>This is creativity. This is sex. This is beauty.</p>
<p>More to come&#8230;</p>
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		<title>A Cautious Criticism of Father Rosica</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 13:04:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Blaise Alleyne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Father Thomas Rosica is the founder and CEO of Salt and Light, which, aside from being a TV station, has a fantastic blog. He posts often, and I enjoy his posts. But sometimes, it seems like he just doesn&#8217;t understand the Internet. I hope the Catholic News Service just took his comments out of context, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://saltandlighttv.org/blog/?page_id=4192">Father Thomas Rosica</a> is the founder and CEO of Salt and Light, which, aside from being a TV station, has a <a href="http://saltandlighttv.org/blog/">fantastic blog</a>. He posts often, and I enjoy his posts. But sometimes, it seems like he just doesn&#8217;t understand the Internet. I hope the Catholic News Service just took his comments out of context, but listen to what <a href="http://saltandlighttv.org/blog/?p=8140">he had to say about the Catholic blogosphere</a>.</p>
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<p>Wow. Okay, first a bit of context.</p>
<p>Regarding the &#8220;negativity,&#8221; Rosica drew heavy fire from many Catholic bloggers after his <a href="http://saltandlighttv.org/blog/?p=6502">harsh criticisms of the pro-life movement</a> a few months ago. He had an important point about mercy and compassion, and if you dig through the drama, there was a lot of <em>really nasty</em> stuff directed his way. But&#8230; isn&#8217;t that to be expected when you tell well-meaning (if often, err&#8230; uninformed) people that they&#8217;re doing the &#8220;<a href="http://saltandlighttv.org/blog/?p=6801">work of Satan</a>?&#8221; There was plenty to disagree with in Rosica&#8217;s post. It&#8217;s unfortunate that the conversation spiraled to such low levels &#8212; on both the part of <a href="http://twitter.com/balleyne/status/4091150482">Rosica</a> and his <a href="http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2009/sep/09091409.html">detractors</a> &#8212; but to extrapolate as if that&#8217;s an accurate depiction of &#8220;the blogs&#8221;? Come on. What Catholic blogs does Rosica read?</p>
<p>More importantly, there are some serious issues the Church faces with the communications revolution of the web, and Rosica is a consultor to the Pontifical Council for Social Communications. He&#8217;s not just any priest, but he has a special role in assisting the Vatican with these challenges. And there are huge challenges. Writer for the Catholic Register, Dorothy Cummings McLean, <a href="http://utsfl.wordpress.com/2009/10/09/new-media-old-media-and-getting-beyond-scapegoating-in-the-pro-life-movement/#comments">explains</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>What we are seeing now is a communications revolution in that anyone and everyone can set up a blog and begin writing on Catholic issues. And depending on the material presented or the skill in presenting it, anyone can attract a large following. No endorsement from the bishops is demanded or even expected by the readers. This leaves the bishops–and traditional media power structures–in a situation akin to the invention of the printing press.</p>
<p>I have no idea how much of a player either Salt + Light or The Catholic Register is on the “Catholic blogosphere.” My guess is that their readerships are dwarfed by the readership of such blogs as “LifeSiteNews”–which has a large American following–”What Does the Prayer Really Say” and “American Papist”. From a Girardian perspective, such blogs have something that old media might want: huge readerships and fervent fans. Meanwhile, old media have something bloggers might want: funding and credibility. These longings might be setting up what Girard calls “mimetic rivalry.”</p></blockquote>
<p>This is similar to the challenges that traditional news organizations are facing, or, well, traditional communicating-anything organizations. But Rosica&#8217;s suggestion? Oversight. <em>Oversight?!</em> I really, really hope that was taken out of context, otherwise someone needs to explain to him what a bad, bad idea that is before he embarrasses himself and the Church. Providing formation for Catholics in this matter in the way that the Church provides formation in general would make sense, but that&#8217;s not &#8220;oversight.&#8221; How would you even begin to provide official mechanisms of oversight for Catholic websites and blogs? </p>
<p>The only solution is to <em>participate in the conversation</em> &#8212; not to try and regulate it. This needs to be done on a diocesan level, like Boston <a href="http://www.cardinalseansblog.org/">Cardinal O&#8217;Malley</a> or New York <a href="http://www.archny.org/news-events/columns-and-blogs/blog---the-gospel-in-the-digital-age/">Archbishop Dolan</a> have been doing. The Archdiocese of Toronto has an <a href="http://archdioceseoftoronto.blogspot.com/">excellent blog</a> as well. As Dorothy explains:</p>
<blockquote><p>How to respond to the Catholic&#8230; blogosphere? Looking at the popularity of “Father Sean’s Blog”, the blog of Boston Cardinal O’Malley, it might be a good idea for the CCCB to begin their own blogs or endorse their favourite blogs. The dream of an episcopal stamp of approval (or even funding) might inspire some bloggers to mind their manners.</p></blockquote>
<p>Bishops and clergy need to <em>engage</em> with Catholic bloggers, to set a good example, to encourage charity, truth and hope &#8212; not to enforce it. You simply couldn&#8217;t. I really hope Rosica&#8217;s choice of wording was just an incredibly sloppy misstep as opposed to anything remotely resembling a plan. Because that would be a <em>terrible</em> plan.</p>
<p>The Catholic Church knows a thing or two about evangelization. It ought to be at the forefront of social media, not fumbling around like a tired old media giant trying to be an information gatekeeper. It <a href="http://blaise.ca/blog/2009/03/13/vatican-considering-new-media-document/">knows better</a>. Fr. Rosica, please don&#8217;t suggest &#8220;oversight&#8221; as a way forward. If it&#8217;s a suggestion, ditch it, and if it&#8217;s a talking point, drop it.</p>
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		<title>My Encomium For Brother Domenic</title>
		<link>http://blaise.ca/blog/2009/11/17/my-encomium-for-brother-domenic/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 06:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Blaise Alleyne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On November 14th, 2009, I was invited to give a speech at a tribute to Brother Domenic, principal of De La Salle College &#8220;Oaklands&#8221; from 1996 to 2009. I graduated from De La Salle in 2005.

In March of 2004, sitting in English class, Mr. Hunt told us that we were all schizophrenic. We were schizophrenic [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>On November 14th, 2009, I was invited to <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bWjpKCdt0v4">give a speech</a> at a tribute to Brother Domenic, principal of <a href="http://www.delasalleoaklands.ca/">De La Salle College &#8220;Oaklands&#8221;</a> from 1996 to 2009. I graduated from De La Salle in 2005.</em></p>
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<p>In March of 2004, sitting in English class, Mr. Hunt told us that we were all schizophrenic. We were schizophrenic for &#8220;attending a school run by a man from another century,&#8221; and putting on our uniforms, and combating this &#8220;tidal wave of junk,&#8221; and then going out and living in it. &#8220;It&#8217;s one thing to be stuck in this hurricane,&#8221; he said, &#8220;but it&#8217;s even worse to be a schizo stuck in this hurricane!&#8221;</p>
<p>From Mr. Hunt, being a &#8220;man from another century&#8221; is a profound compliment of the highest order. I&#8217;ve been fortunate enough to know this man from another century for the past eight years of our century &#8212; and, unlike Alessia, only four years as a student, and the other four as an alumnus who hangs around the school a bit too much. Since graduating, I&#8217;ve attended &#8212; among other things &#8212; every Christmas and Founder&#8217;s Day mass that I could. Only a direct conflict would stop me; if my exams were in the afternoon, I&#8217;d be here in the morning.</p>
<p>One of the main benefits of being at the school assemblies has always been Brother Domenic&#8217;s speeches. I remember him stressing what it means to be a <em>signum fidei</em> at the opening assembly in 2001, when I was in Grade 9. I remember a speech railing against the phrase, &#8220;that&#8217;s nice,&#8221; as a focus on mediocrity. I remember him stressing that, at De La Salle, we are not taught to be great, but to be good &#8212; not in terms of being mediocre, but in terms of being centred on Christ. The most memorable of all, however, were the words of wisdom Brother offered us during a time of great mourning, at Ian Lawson Van Toch&#8217;s Mass of the Resurrection. Brother Domenic said,</p>
<blockquote><p>The way we measure success as human beings is terribly flawed. I am increasingly of the view personally that we have it terribly wrong. It is not the length of days or the accomplishments or the conquests, or health or the career, which makes us most human and therefore like God in whose image we are created. <em>It is our capacity to love and be loved by others.</em></p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://blaise.ca/blog/2008/11/06/success-love-and-self-worth/">Success</a> is our capacity to love and be loved by others.</p>
<p>And love? The Pastoral Constitution on the Church in the Modern World, <em><a href="http://www.vatican.va/archive/hist_councils/ii_vatican_council/documents/vat-ii_cons_19651207_gaudium-et-spes_en.html">Gaudium Et Spes</a></em> (&#8220;Joy and Hope&#8221;), explains love in the following way:</p>
<blockquote><p>(24) God, Who has fatherly concern for everyone, has willed that all men should constitute one family and treat one another in a spirit of brotherhood&#8230;</p>
<p>For this reason, love for God and neighbour is the first and greatest commandment. Sacred Scripture, however, teaches us that the love of God cannot be separated from love of neighbour&#8230;</p>
<p>Indeed, the Lord Jesus, when He prayed to the Father, &#8220;that all may be one. . . as we are one&#8221; (John 17:21-22) opened up vistas closed to human reason, for He implied a certain likeness between the union of the divine Persons, and the unity of God&#8217;s sons in truth and charity. This likeness reveals that man, who is the only creature on earth which God willed for itself, <em>cannot fully find himself except through a sincere gift of himself</em>.</p></blockquote>
<p>In other words, man cannot truly be successful except through a sincere gift of self.</p>
<p>Love is a self-giving &#8212; to love is to serve &#8212; and to be truly successful is to love and to be loved.</p>
<p>Brother Domenic, it&#8217;s clear by your abundant service and gift of self to the school community, and by the community of people assembled here today who love you, that you have truly been successful.</p>
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		<title>Against the Test Drive Approach to Spousal Love</title>
		<link>http://blaise.ca/blog/2009/11/10/against-the-test-drive-approach-to-spousal-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 13:23:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Blaise Alleyne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jessica Valenti, author of The Purity Myth, wrote about why everyone should have premarital sex on Feministing yesterday.
Let&#8217;s face it &#8211; if you&#8217;re going to commit yourself to someone for (presumably) the rest of your life, it&#8217;s probably best if you know that you&#8217;re sexually compatible. I don&#8217;t think this is particularly radical thing to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jessica Valenti, author of <em>The Purity Myth</em>, <a href="http://www.feministing.com/archives/018793.html">wrote about why everyone should have premarital sex</a> on Feministing yesterday.</p>
<blockquote><p>Let&#8217;s face it &#8211; if you&#8217;re going to commit yourself to someone for (presumably) the rest of your life, it&#8217;s probably best if you know that you&#8217;re sexually compatible. I don&#8217;t think this is particularly radical thing to say; in fact, it seems quite logical to me. But somehow, if you suggest that pre-marital sex is a good and maybe even necessary thing (especially if you say those things while being a feminist) you are an evil, evil whoremaker.</p>
<p>Do I think that people can have perfectly wonderful satisfying relationships without having had sex before making a commitment? Sure, I&#8217;m positive that happens often. But considering what a huge role sexuality plays in our lives and relationships&#8230;well, I&#8217;d rather be super duper positive.</p></blockquote>
<p>What a tragically narrow vision of sexuality! Sexuality is reduced to an <em>action</em>. It&#8217;s not just Valenti. Films become rated R: &#8220;contains sexuality.&#8221; The example that will always stick out in my mind is Nick Carter asking in <em>Backstreet&#8217;s Back</em>, &#8220;am I sexual?&#8221; (Yes, Nick, you are a sexual being.) As wonderful as sex (the act) is, sex (-uality) is so much more than that. It&#8217;s especially ironic considering Valenti is trying to reclaim a more nuanced vision of sexuality from &#8220;the virgin/whore binary,&#8221; yet her nuanced vision remains so <em>narrow</em>. Sexuality isn&#8217;t just having sex. It&#8217;s about being created male and female, about our entire being, not just our genitals.</p>
<p>More importantly, I&#8217;ve become increasingly skeptical of the &#8220;test-drive&#8221; approach to love. Yes, of course you want to get to know your partner before you make a longterm commitment, but suggesting that means you ought to take their body for a test drive  is a bad, bad way to approach that commitment.</p>
<p>It sets up the spousal model all wrong.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve come to refer to this as the &#8220;pleasure and duty&#8221; ethic. If people consent mutually to the use of their bodies for pleasure, what&#8217;s the problem? Look at the model: Pleasure is the end goal, and consenting to the &#8220;use&#8221; of your body parts is the means of attaining it. Fluffy feelings of bonding might be a nice side-effect. Orgasm is the intent. The other person becomes a means of achieving your orgasm, and you become a means of theirs. This is <em>objectification</em> by definition, even if it&#8217;s mutual and consenting. On top that, <em>pleasure is the metric of success</em>. That is, a successful sex act is one that brings about pleasure. The act of sex becomes, at least in part, an economic transaction where you trade access to your body in exchange for pleasure. And that&#8217;s not always going to be a fair trade &#8212; and you may evaluate the quality and the fairness of the deal. After all, we test drive cars. And we also sell and replace them when they no longer serve their purpose.</p>
<p>I have a crazy idea: What if the goal of sex is self-giving rather than pleasure? What if the idea was to come into ultimate union with another human being, and the means of attaining that was complete and total self-giving and affirmation of the other <em>as other</em>? I have a feeling that the pleasure factors in as a side-effect, without &#8220;driving&#8221; the entire experience.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t feel the need to take my future spouse for a test drive. I&#8217;m not marrying a car.</p>
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		<title>Electronic Arts Stages Protest of Dante&#8217;s Inferno at E3</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 18:57:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post originally appeared on Techdirt.
At the E3 Expo a few weeks ago, Electronic Arts showcased an upcoming game, Dante&#8217;s Inferno, to awkward protests from a group of concerned Christians going under the name, &#8220;Salvationists Against Virtual and Eternal Damnation.&#8221; They had signs like &#8220;Trade in your PlayStation for a PrayStation,&#8221; &#8220;Cheat codes won&#8217;t save [...]]]></description>
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<p>At the E3 Expo a few weeks ago, Electronic Arts showcased an upcoming game, <em>Dante&#8217;s Inferno</em>, to awkward protests from a group of concerned Christians going under the name, &#8220;Salvationists Against Virtual and Eternal Damnation.&#8221; They had signs like &#8220;Trade in your PlayStation for a PrayStation,&#8221; &#8220;Cheat codes won&#8217;t save your soul,&#8221; and &#8220;Hell is not a game,&#8221; as well as a <a href="http://www.wearesavedgroup.org/">1996-esque website</a> complete with animated GIFs and multi-colored all-caps text. The protest was covered by the <a href="http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/technology/2009/06/e3-protesters-target-dantes-inferno-game.html">LA Times</a>, the <a href="http://blogs.mercurynews.com/aei/2009/06/03/e3-tidbits-from-today/">San Jose Mercury News</a> and many gaming blogs. That sort of controversy might make the game more appealing to some&#8230; except, EA admitted that <a href="http://www.gamepolitics.com/2009/06/05/dante039s-inferno-protest-e3-was-staged-ea">the protest was entirely staged</a> by the viral marketing firm that they hired (though, <a href="http://www.gameculture.com/node/1359">it didn&#8217;t fool everyone</a>).</p>
<p>As the popular gaming blog <a href="http://www.joystiq.com/2009/06/05/ea-confirms-dantes-inferno-protest-was-staged/">Joystiq</a> puts it, there&#8217;s got to be a better way to promote the game. A faux controversy might seem like a clever idea, until people realize it&#8217;s just a publicity stunt. Plus, it doesn&#8217;t seem very smart to <a href="http://www.ps3informer.com/playstation-3/news/should-ea-apologize-to-christians-010449.php">alienate Christians</a> when you could be selling them the game instead (as Thomas Peters from <a href="http://www.americanpapist.com/2009/06/huh-video-game-company-pays-people-to.html">AmericanPapist.com</a> writes, &#8220;getting to play Dante as he slashes his way through hell? It sure beats Tetris.&#8221;). Electronic Arts recently landed in some hot water for another clever viral marketing idea, which involved <a href="http://www.gamepolitics.com/2009/04/11/ea-wants-its-brass-knuckles-back">shipping brass knuckles with the <em>Godfather II</em> press kit</a>, despite mere possession being a first-degree misdemeanor in some states to which they were shipped. They get points for creativity, but they might want to think twice before acting on some of these ideas&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Read the <a href="http://techdirt.com/articles/20090612/0853575211.shtml#comments">comments</a> on Techdirt.</strong></p>
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		<title>Life &#8212; Imagine the Potential</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 21:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Blaise Alleyne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post originally appeared on the UofT Students for Life blog.
I&#8217;m not usually a fan of any pro-life arguments that focus on potentiality, because it tends to obscure the fact that from the moment of conception we&#8217;re dealing with actual life (and just potential growth)&#8230; but that caveat aside, this new ad from CatholicVote.org is [...]]]></description>
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<p>I&#8217;m not usually a fan of any pro-life arguments that focus on potentiality, because it tends to obscure the fact that from the moment of conception we&#8217;re dealing with <em>actual</em> life (and just potential growth)&#8230; but that caveat aside, this <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oIBZ-kJ6XAc&amp;feature=player_embedded">new ad</a> from <a href="http://www.catholicvote.org/">CatholicVote.org</a> is amazing (via <a href="http://www.americanpapist.com/2009/05/video-life-imagine-potential.html">AmP</a>):</p>
<p><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/oIBZ-kJ6XAc&#038;color1=0xb1b1b1&#038;color2=0xcfcfcf&#038;feature=player_embedded&#038;fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/oIBZ-kJ6XAc&#038;color1=0xb1b1b1&#038;color2=0xcfcfcf&#038;feature=player_embedded&#038;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object></p>
<p>This is the second ad they&#8217;ve produced (here&#8217;s the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V2CaBR3z85c">first</a>). Can&#8217;t wait to see what else they come up with.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2009 17:48:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Blaise Alleyne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The chamber strings pops concert was an amazing success. During my set, I played a new song I wrote for Heather as a surprise and proposed to her during the bridge.
This&#8230;

plus this&#8230;

equals engaged:

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The chamber strings pops concert was an amazing success. During my set, I played a new song I wrote for Heather as a surprise and proposed to her during the bridge.</p>
<p>This&#8230;<br />
<a href="http://blaise.ca/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dsc02306.jpg"><img src="http://blaise.ca/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dsc02306-300x225.jpg" alt="HHCS Pops Concert Blaise" title="HHCS Pops Concert Blaise" width="300" height="225" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-729" /></a></p>
<p>plus this&#8230;<br />
<a href="http://blaise.ca/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dsc02308.jpg"><img src="http://blaise.ca/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dsc02308-300x225.jpg" alt="The Ring" title="The Ring" width="300" height="225" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-730" /></a></p>
<p>equals engaged:<br />
<a href="http://blaise.ca/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dsc02328.jpg"><img src="http://blaise.ca/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dsc02328-300x225.jpg" alt="Engaged" title="Engaged" width="300" height="225" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-731" /></a></p>
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		<title>Vatican Considering New Media Document</title>
		<link>http://blaise.ca/blog/2009/03/13/vatican-considering-new-media-document/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 10:47:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Blaise Alleyne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Vatican is considering preparing a document on new media and how the Church&#8217;s communications strategy is affected (via @popebenedictxvi). In a seminar sponsored by the Pontifical Council for Social Communications, bishops from 82 countries me to discuss &#8220;modern media and the new culture of communications that has arisen in recent years.&#8221;
The Church has been [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Vatican is <a href="http://www.catholicnews.com/data/stories/cns/0901066.htm">considering preparing a document on new media</a> and how the Church&#8217;s communications strategy is affected (via @<a href="http://twitter.com/popebenedictxvi/status/1305474701">popebenedictxvi</a>). In a seminar sponsored by the Pontifical Council for Social Communications, bishops from 82 countries me to discuss &#8220;modern media and the new culture of communications that has arisen in recent years.&#8221;</p>
<p>The Church has been keen on embracing new communications technologies, grounded especially in &#8220;the Second Vatican Council&#8217;s 1963 decree &#8220;Inter Mirifica&#8221; on the instruments of social communications and on the pontifical council&#8217;s 1991 pastoral instruction, &#8220;Aetatis Novae&#8221; (&#8220;At the Dawn of a New Era&#8221;).&#8221; Just a few months ago, the Vatican launched a <a href="http://www.youtube.com/vatican">YouTube channel</a> and last July in Sydney, the Pope was sending updates to pilgrims at World Youth Day via SMS. Last September, he sent a message to Catholics through the <a href="http://www.xt3.com/">Xt3</a> social networking website launched at World Youth Day. Past documents from the Vatican, such as &#8220;<a href="http://www.vatican.va/roman_curia/pontifical_councils/pccs/documents/rc_pc_pccs_doc_20020228_ethics-internet_en.html">Ethics in Internet</a>,&#8221; have not only provided guidelines and encouragement, but have illuminated <a href="http://www.linux.com/feature/49533">surprising sympathies with free software</a>. Sister Judith Zoebelein, who <a href="http://blaise.ca/blog/2007/05/03/interview-with-sister-judith-zoebelein/">runs the Vatican website</a>, has given talks at tech conferences in the past.</p>
<p>That said, the Vatican&#8217;s <a href="http://www.americanpapist.com/2009/03/picture-vatican-website-obama-fied.html">website design could use a &#8220;refresh&#8221;</a>, and &#8212; more importantly &#8212; it still hasn&#8217;t figured out many meaningful ways to enable the kind of <em>two-way</em> communication that the Internet enables.</p>
<p>But it appears that many bishops understand this.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;The church today cannot only give information &#8212; which is certainly useful, but we cannot limit ourselves to that,&#8221; Archbishop Celli said.</p>
<p>&#8220;I think the church needs to enter into a dialogue that is increasingly rich and proactive, a dialogue of life with people who are seeking, who are distant and who would like to find a message that is closer and more suitable to their path,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>For that reason, he said, his council has been pushing bishops around the world not only to have their own Web sites, but also to make sure these sites are interactive.</p></blockquote>
<p>Unfortunately, the Vatican doesn&#8217;t think it can do this itself.</p>
<blockquote><p>Unfortunately, Archbishop Celli added, it&#8217;s been impractical for the Vatican to make its own Web presence interactive because it would be flooded by questions and comments from all over the world. It&#8217;s something more easily done on the local level, he said.</p></blockquote>
<p>I agree that this should be encouraged on a local level, and there are some great examples of Catholics converging on various social networking sites (e.g. <a href="http://www.tweetcatholic.com/">TweetCatholic</a>) and creating their own (e.g. Xt3 and <a href="http://www.flocknote.com/">flockNote</a>) as well, but I think there&#8217;s a <em>different</em> kind of interaction the Vatican could enable. I don&#8217;t doubt that the the YouTube channel would be overrun if they enabled comments, but there are still lots of other ways to experiment. For example, in October, someone <a href="http://americanpapist.com/2008/10/pope-benedict-asked-to-begin-blogging.html">suggested to Pope Benedict that he start a blog</a>. Again, comments might be pretty unsustainable, but even if communication <em>with the Vatican</em> is tough using social media, there must be ways to experiment with enabling <em>communication among Catholics</em> on a global level. Though I can appreciate the challenges of scale, language, staff, etc&#8230;</p>
<p>Encouraging is great, but I hope they don&#8217;t shy away from experimenting more themselves.</p>
<p>Archbishop George H. Niederauer of San Francisco, chairman of the U.S. bishops&#8217; communications committee, did indicate that it&#8217;s important for the Vatican to have a presence where young people are (YouTube, Facebook, Twitter, etc), and with their help.</p>
<blockquote><p>Archbishop Niederauer said the change in new media was in some ways like the change from the horse to the car a century ago.</p>
<p>&#8220;Because 100 years ago, if an old man bought a car, who could fix it? His grandson or his son, because they learned the machinery. They headed straight for it; they didn&#8217;t look back,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>In a similar way today, he said, young people have seized on the communications opportunities of new media, and the church should welcome their talents and expertise.</p></blockquote>
<p>I&#8217;m more than happy to help. <img src='http://blaise.ca/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>There&#8217;s Probably A God, Now Stop Worrying and Enjoy Your Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Feb 2009 23:06:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Blaise Alleyne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The United Church just gained big points in my book for their response to the athiest bus campaign in Toronto. The ads read: &#8220;There&#8217;s Probably No God. Now stop worrying and enjoy your life.&#8221; The United Church responded by adding an alternative response and running their own ads as a poll (highlighting the false premise [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The United Church just gained big points in my book for their <a href="http://torontoist.com/2009/02/united_church_and_atheists_make_gre.php">response to the athiest bus campaign</a> in Toronto. The ads read: &#8220;There&#8217;s Probably No God. Now stop worrying and enjoy your life.&#8221; The United Church responded by adding an alternative response and running their own ads as a poll (highlighting the false premise in the original that to believe in God is to be worried and not enjoy life).</p>
<p><img style="width:400px;" src="http://torontoist.com/attachments/Alex%20Nino%20Gheciu/20090202god.JPG"/></p>
<p>Though, the Torontoist coverage is pretty funny, in and of itself:</p>
<blockquote><p>While the ads have definitely garnered a fair bit of attention, it may not be the kind the Church was hoping for. The latest Wondercafe poll results show the atheist position bringing down the house, with 53 per cent of voters agreeing there’s probably not a God, compared to 47 per cent insisting there probably is a God.</p></blockquote>
<p>Since when does a 53/47 split constitute &#8220;bringing down the house?&#8221;</p>
<p>But it doesn&#8217;t end there! The Freethought Association provides even more to chuckle about:</p>
<blockquote><p>“It’s just kind of funny,” says Katie Kish, vice-president of the Freethought Association of Canada, the organization spearheading the Canadian Atheist Bus Campaign. “They’ve put this huge ad in the Globe and Mail that links to Wondercafe. Then you go to their discussion and we’re winning, so that gives us more press and more people coming to find us.”</p></blockquote>
<p>The Atheist Bus Campaign runs ads that generate a ton of talk and debate about God and religion in the public square, in places (like the Torontoist) that aren&#8217;t normally talking about God. And they think that getting attention from an ad campaign that&#8217;s purpose is to play off there&#8217;s is ironic? The efforts of the United Church aren&#8217;t to &#8220;win&#8221; in some poll on their website. It seems to me that the most ironic thing here is that athiests are getting people to talk about God.</p>
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